cai_zhang I hold it true, whate'er befall; I feel it, when I sorrow most; 'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. 无论如何,我都坚信这一点,越悲痛体会越深:情愿爱过而落空,也好过从来不识爱滋味。 —— Alfred Lord Tennyson 《犯罪心理 第十一季》